Sexless Marriage - How To Stay Positive-Happy In A Sexless Marriage

By Christopher A. Hernandez


It may come as a surprise, but sometimes the cause of pain and discomfort in the body can stem from an unhealthy or burdened mind. Stress, emotional upset and negative thought patterns can wreak havoc on the body's nervous system, which in turn can affect the organs, muscles and almost every other part of the body. Ask any good Ontario chiropractor and they are sure to agree that nurturing a positive mind can have a great impact on the body's nervous system and therefore the rest of the body. It may sound too good to be true, but following these simple tips could be the answer to transforming your health:

Whenever you think that your mindset is getting a bit negative, think about the worst things that could happen to you and be grateful that none of it has happened yet.Having a healthy level of self-esteem is another great way of staying positive. You are not going to be a positive person if you don't value yourself. So whenever you are feeling down, think about the things that are amazing about you. For instance, you may have given a great presentation at the office meeting or you may have used your creativity recently. It may be something as simple as cooking a meal that your husband loves. You can also make a list of things that are great about you. It will be the boost you need to stay positive.

Don't be engrossed in yourself. Thinking about other people and helping them out may do you more good than you can imagine. Give money or clothing to a charity whenever you can.Keeping a journal that lists things you are thankful for is a great idea. The truth is that you have a lot of things to be thankful for everyday. Losing a job may seem like the worst thing that can happen to you, but you can be thankful for having a roof over your head and food on the table, can't you? Similarly, you may not be on speaking terms with your mother, but you do have a loving husband and friends. Be thankful for the things you have, instead of worrying about things you don't. Write in your journal everyday and make sure to have a look at it whenever you are feeling down.

What are you grateful for,Keep a journal of things you are grateful for. Take the time each day to jot down what you have valued from your day or what you are thankful for. Do the same about yourself. What are your personal strengths? What do you like about yourself? Focus on and remind yourself of these reasons to be happy everyday and you're sure to chase those negative vibes away.

There are more homeless families than there has ever been before. And it seems like every time you turn a corner, some one is getting cancer. With all this in life going on, how ever can a person continue to stay positive?Everything was lost, so I felt! The only thing that kept me going was to stay positive, no matter how hard it was.

Reminisce.Think about times in your life when you have felt the happiest or most positive. Allow yourself moments to reminisce about these times and put a smile back on your face. Believe that more of these times can be created in your future."Blessed is a man who perseveres under trial; for once he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life, which the Lord has promised to those who love Him" James 1:12

Bring them a little positivity.What can you do to help turn their day around? It could be something small, like acknowledging a recent accomplishment. Bring them a snack from the vending machine. Even simply asking them how they are doing can help them to open up a little and get things off their chest. Do what you think would cheer you up on an off day. If you are met with an even bigger wave of negativity, just walk away. You know that you tried, and you can't win them all!

The first point on how to Stay Positive throughout life, or your next storm, is to be PREPARED. "Before anything else, preparation is the key to success." - Alexander Graham Bell. Although my family and I lost power in our house, we did not need to panic because my mother prepared all the materials we will needed to survive through the night and throughout the week. My mother was ready for the storm! In order to stay positive throughout life, you must be prepared for what life has to offer you. You and I both know, life is difficult because there are so many different challenges and obstacles we must overcome on a day to day basis. But ladies and gentlemen, if you prepare for these challenges, you will be ready for action!

Here are some tips on how to prepare for your next storm:Create a box of your favorite objects and materials that makes your happy.Create a playlist of songs that make you feel good instantly.Surround yourself around people who are also positive.The next point on how to Stay Positive throughout life, or your next storm, is to STAY BUSY! Although there was no electricity in our house, my family was busy entertaining ourselves and each other through the board games and music we were dancing to. The truth of the matter is, when you are lazy, and are not busy, your mind wonders and you lose the ability to focus on something. In addition, you lose your ability to stay positive. If you want to Stay Positive throughout life, you can not be lazy - must STAY BUSY.Here are some tips on how to stay busy through next storm:Keep a diary and record your thoughts and ideas.Read in order to enhance your knowledge.Set up short term and long term goals on which you want to achieve, and work towards accomplishing them.

With the media always reporting doom and gloom all over the world, it is often difficult to see the good. So many times life puts you into such unexpected surroundings that must be dealt with to the best of your ability. It is never easy.However, your feelings and thoughts are what determine whether you get through the day by having a positive experience, or a negative one. Your attitude is the key. Positive thoughts, feelings and actions may help you through many stressful situations.When dealing with unexpected incidents, expressing a positive attitude would be more beneficial than a displaying a depressing one. Additionally, a positive attitude also initiates and builds up your confidence so that you can get through the difficult situation.




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